When deciding on something, do you pursue the form or the goal?
“I will buy an iPad because I love Apple”
“I will become a call center agent after I graduate, that’s the fastest way to having a career after I graduate”
“I need to go abroad, my family needs money to live”
“I have been attending this church since I was born. Why would I try others that they say would benefit me?”
Form or goal?
In buying a gadget, the form are brands, the goal is usability.
In establishing a career, the form is your job, the goal is being able to use your unique passion in pursuing the kind of work designed for you.
In relationships and family, the form is job security, the goal is love and togetherness.
In worship, the form is a church, the goal is God
In making decisions, the forms are almost always given emphasis. But in the long run, if we focus on the goal rather than the form, it produces short term pains and long term gains.